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               I see so many people (guys and girls both) that are all about their high school sweetheart or the person they met in college. That's all fine and dandy but just not for me. It's my belief that a lot of these couples that start out young are really setting themselves up for failure. It's one of those things that makes me think that these couples are really dependant on each other. It's like making two halves into one whole instead of two wholes into one greater whole. When you have a relationship like that, you just can help each other to grow, right? I never thought so anyways. For me, it's been about self discovery and knowing what I like. People are afraid to do that these days because that's not how their parents did it nor is it how their grandparents did things. What people need to realize is that we are in changing time. Changing times mean changing means in my book. We don't get water the same way our great grandparents did, we don't drive the cars our grandparents did and we don't communicate the way our parents did, so why do we date the same way they did? It just doesn't work anymore. As great as technology has been, it also give us too many options in some cases so it's so important to really know what you want in a computer and in a mate. If it weren't for sites like this one, I wouldn't really know how people can get to know what they do and don't like. With so much more temptation out there these days, how can people just 'settle' and feel secure about it? Sure, there is a little bit of a romantic in me, but I'm also logical and want the best for me and everyone I end up dating. Sometimes I log and realize' yeah, these people really know what they're doing. Sure, there are also the 55 year olds just looking get a little and that's kind of pathetic but I understand I guess. For one guy, Marty, I noticed on your hot book .com he's still playing the game at 75 years old. More power to him, I say, but that's not what I want. I'm just trying to sift through the fun to find Mrs. Right.

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